I did not know what to expect when I signed up to Rahab, over 2 years ago. Although I have previously done some short-term outreach supporting sex workers in in South America, this felt different. This was local. These were women who were involuntarily operating in the perilous and unpredictable sex industry; on the streets, less than five miles from the comfort of my home.
Nevertheless, supporting the women on weeknights was and is completely different to what I could have ever expected. On a typical outreach, we are able to offer hot drinks, cold drinks, snacks, toiletries, and any information on housing or shelter should they need.
Having operated in the area for well over 10 years, at this point, the Rahab team are a familiar presence and often the conversations with the women are friendly and anecdotal; for example, discussions about the weather, fashion, or our weird and wonderful Christmas traditions. At other times, conversations are a little more hard-hitting, and the reality of their life’s challenges comes into full focus. During these conversations, when it all comes pouring out, our role is to simply provide a non-judgemental listening ear to what these precious go through.
We offer comfort and compassion, even when we do not necessarily have the right words in response. Where they have no person in their life to confide in, nobody who lets them vent about their day, nobody who is interested in them, the Rahab team are there to support them in their hardship and be a friend.
Volunteering with Rahab has been a deeply moving experience in many ways. It has pointed to my own erroneous judgements, shallowness and ignorance which I never realised was there, prompting me to change my outlook towards others and how I go about my life.
I have also learnt to understand that these women, at least in my first-hand experience, do not choose this lifestyle. It is a matter of survival, and they are merely helpless victims of a broken, prejudiced and iniquitous society, and those of us who are able, have a moral duty to support our brothers and sisters who are in suffering.
Working with the women has enabled me to become a more compassionate person, and I have come to treasure these brave, strong women. It has been a privilege and an honour to get to know them, and I would strongly encourage others to get involved, should they feel called to.
Katie (Rahab Volunteer)